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My Senses · How I’m Wired

How you experience sound, light, touch, smell, taste and movement, and what feels calming, enjoyable or uncomfortable.

13 statements, about 4 minutes. For each one, pick “That’s me”, “Sometimes” or “Not really”. Free, and not a diagnosis. At the end you get feedback in words: your strengths, what can feel harder, what helps you and ideas to try.

Strengths

  • I notice small details others miss, like sounds or smells.
  • I know which sensations help me feel calm.

What can feel harder

  • Background noise makes it hard to concentrate.
  • Bright or flickering lights bother me.
  • Some clothing textures, seams or labels are hard to wear.
  • Strong smells can feel overwhelming. They can sometimes make me retch or make my eyes water.
  • Busy places, like supermarkets, wear me out quickly.
  • I don’t always notice I’m hungry, thirsty or need the toilet until it’s urgent.

What helps

  • Deep pressure, like a weighted blanket or a tight hug.
  • Headphones or earplugs.
  • Softer lighting or sunglasses.
  • Moving, rocking or fidgeting.
  • Familiar foods, textures or smells.

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